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officialjaden : You Never Really Know Who Your Friends Are...

Let me make the tweet below clear. Based on a personal experience of mine, I took a lesson that ‘some compliments might contain some hidden purposes’. For example,

A friend of yours gave lotsa compliments about your appearance, for example your hair. One day, she told you to cut it or change the hairstyle into something you don’t like or you don’t match with. She was kinda pushing you by telling ‘Come on, you’re absolutely gonna look cute on it.’

From the compliment we can conclude that: SHE IS ENVY OF YOUR BEAUTY AND WANTING YOU TO BE UGLIER!

You don’t really have to be mad or keeping distance from her, I’ve got some tips to face a friend like that:

1. Try not to show off your specialty in front of her, that makes her envy the more.
2. If you think what she’s got is not that good, you can help her to make it looks better. Giving ideas of some treatment products might work.
3. If she started to copy you, I know how it feels like. What I did? I was upset and tired of being nice, I showed off the beauty of my hair in front of her face and finally she over-spoken her purpose that because she’s envy of me, HAH!

Well I think that's all. Just don't let it break your friendship tie. I know it sucks yet annoying to have such a friend like that, but take it positively. She's envy of you, that means you're beautiful. Sometimes being proud is needed, that's how Thally sees it!(:

B'loved Teddy

Last week my school held a retreat and studytour trip to Central Java. It was quite fun, we went to Prambanan Temple, 'Hati Kudus Yesus' Temple at Ganjuran, Kasongan and Pasar Klewer. Hiks :'( You've known about the volcanoes at Merapi Mountain and the volcanic-dust rain around Java. That's the reason why we didn't go to Borobudur Temple and Malioboro. Whereas, the place that my friends and I have been waited to visit is Malioboro, we could shop til we die there, but that's just a dream now :( Yes, I blame the freakin' Merapi and wish that mountain stop producing volcanic things, besides it kills people, it makes some recreation places dirty.

Sorry, there's no photo to post here. Central Java's temperature was total hot, SUPER! I wasn't in the mood for taking photo even of myself because I was tired, thirsty and sweaty. Only one interesting object for me to be captured. Marcelli's teddy bear. It was really cute, I wish I had it :(

     

very cute, huh? Told you. PS: The 'B' letter means nothing ;)

Well, it's all about the teddy. Anyway, just figured out that one's closeness with someone else can be a perfect base for love to grow. LOL ;) Browsed about love quotes few days ago, you can read them in my twitter and one of them was 'Friendship often ends with love' well that's pretty sarcastic, to me. OK that's all for now, later for music post. KThxBye:*